Topic Overview
What kinds of development occur between ages 6 and 10?
Children between ages 6 and 10 are more independent and
physically active than they were in the preschool years. They also are more
involved with friends and are learning to think in more complex ways.
Progress in the major areas of development—physical,
intellectual, emotional, and social—is gradual. But the changes you will see in
your child from one year to the next can be dramatic.
How will my child change physically?
Strength and muscle coordination improve rapidly in these years.
Many children learn to throw, hit a baseball, or kick a soccer ball. Some
children may even develop skills in more complex activities, such as playing
basketball or dancing.
How will my child change intellectually?
From ages 6 to 10, your child develops a more mature and logical
way of thinking. He or she gradually becomes able to consider several parts to
a problem or situation. This is a change from the simplistic thinking of a
preschooler.
Even though their thinking becomes more complex, children in this
age group still think in concrete terms, which means they are most concerned
with things that are "real" rather than with ideas. Generally, these things are
those that can be identified with the senses. For example, actually touching
the soft fur of a rabbit is more meaningful to a child than being told that an
object is "soft like a rabbit." Because they still can mostly consider only one
factor of a situation or perspective at a time, children of this age have
difficulty fully understanding how things are connected.
How will my child change emotionally and socially?
When children enter school, they leave the security of home and
family. They become players on the larger stage of school and friends. Here,
they learn some crucial skills—including how to make friends—that they can use
throughout their lives.
Children's self-esteem, which is their sense of worth and
belonging, is fragile and can change rapidly depending on what is happening
around them. At times, children of this age seem like little adults as they
march off to school with backpacks full of responsibilities. But at other
times, they can be as unreasonable as toddlers.
How can I manage this active time?
Parents often overestimate their children's ability to make good
decisions. Children of this age need firm and consistent rules that are
explained clearly and compassionately. Effective parents are able to give their
children enough independence to learn from their successes and failures and at
the same time provide consistent direction and unconditional support.
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